Can the word "Love" be used in a D/s relationship and if so, how does a slave show the Master/Mistress they love them?
Update [06/16/2002 17:41]:
I think that the word "love" has far too many overtones and undertones in our world. I know that personally I am terrified of using the word because every individual has a different viewpoint on its meaning. It's a loaded word.
Do I love my Sir? Yes, I probably do. Do I care about him, his health and well-being? Absolutely and without equivocation. Is what I feel for him love? Maybe.
The only word in the BDSM lexicon I find to be more loaded than "love" is "Master." I call my Dominant Sir because to me, Master entails a connection I do not yet have with my Dominant. I am not collared to him. I do not live in a 24/7 with him. I am his submissive and he is my Sir. Should things change in the future, my form of address to my Sir will likely change as well.
I know I got off topic with this, but oh well.
If the title of this blog sounds familiar, it is because it comes from the title of Viola Johnson's book, To Love, to Obey, to Serve. Her order of importance for the life of a servant speaks to me and her influence can be found in much of what I write.
Wednesday, June 12, 2002
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communication,
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